COMPLETE
OR FINISH (Part 3)
Adesina
Abegunde
HOW
COUPLES COMPLETE THEMSELVES
Hi beloved, I believe
you are enjoying heaven on earth in your marriage already. I believe there are
traces that things are changing for your good. Let me say that every true and
lasting change will begin with you, so celebrate the little changes you are
seeing and you will see many more in Jesus name.
In the last post, we
looked at what it means to be finished, the causes and how to recover whatever
has been lost. I believe that the God of restoration is at work already in your
marital relationship.
This week, I will be
addressing how couple can complete themselves in order to have fulfillment in
marriage. A marriage in which one party is not feeling used and useless, but
one in which both parties are flourishing and feeling grateful to God.
To
be complete in marriage means:
1. that
a person becomes better and not bitter in marriage
2. to
gain more vital things needed to run destiny, the marriage must be a means
through which mGod supply those things such as character development, joy,
happiness, insights, passion, courage etc.
3. to
come to a point of great fulfilment, wholeness, safety/security and gratitude
to God
Let us get better insights of completeness from the
Scriptures;
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (AMP)
9 Two are better than one, because they have a good [more satisfying] reward for their labor;
10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!
11 Again, if two lie down together, then they have warmth; but how can one be warm alone?
12 And though a man might prevail against him who is alone, two will withstand him. A threefold cord is not quickly broken.
9 Two are better than one, because they have a good [more satisfying] reward for their labor;
10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!
11 Again, if two lie down together, then they have warmth; but how can one be warm alone?
12 And though a man might prevail against him who is alone, two will withstand him. A threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Deuteronomy
32:30 (AMP)
30 How could one have chased a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight, except their Rock had sold them, and the Lord had delivered them up?
30 How could one have chased a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight, except their Rock had sold them, and the Lord had delivered them up?
The scriptures above reveal that when two individuals
come together correctly the following happen;
1. they
have more satisfying results in life (Ecclesiastes
4:9)
2. none
will remain down for long, because the other will lift up(Ecclesiastes 4:10)
3. they
will generate energy to get their work done (Ecclesiastes 4:11)
4. they
will be unbeatable by any enemy, feeling safe and secure(Ecclesiastes 4:12a)
5. their
unity will attract divine partnership(Ecclesiastes
4:12b)
6. together
everyone achieves more –TEAM (Deuteronomy
32:30)
The above list contains the telltales of being
complete in a marriage and it is the will of God that we are complete.
Few tips to help us
complete in marriage are; love, knowledge, sensitivity to one another,
selflessness, family vision and purpose, regular evaluations, readiness to
learn and change, continuous personal improvement, obedience to biblical
teachings, forgiveness, openness, faithfulness, fear of God, commitment to make
the marriage work, and effective godly mentoring relationship.
You will succeed in
your marriage in Jesus name.
You will be grateful,
graceful and glad you are married in Jesus name.
I cast out every fear
of marriage in you in Jesus name.
No evil flow will
surface in your home in Jesus name.
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