WHY YOU NEED TO MARRY RIGHT

WHY YOU NEED TO MARRY RIGHT

Adesina Abegunde

It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman - Pro 21:19

Every day she made his life miserable with her questions. She pestered him until he wished he were dead -Jdg 16:16

You can’t afford a bad marriage: IT IS TOO COSTLY FOR YOUR DESTINY.

Marriage is almost the most common source of pain and sorrow for many adults.

Good marriage is costly and can only come by WORKING IT not by WISHING IT.

Good marriage is hard work, just imagine; it takes so much money to get married and very little to file a divorce.

God want you to marry right. Marrying rightly does not mean no challenge but that you have peace and joy with your Love and your LORD as you work it out together under God.

The following are the reasons why you need to marry right and keep making things right in your marriage:

           1) Marriage is a bed of roses, but the roses have thorns

This means that marriage is not all rosy, there will be difficult times, but if you marry right, it will be easier to cope. Love is CHOOSING to do kind, unselfish deeds for the other. Love is giving and forgiving. Love is HELPING, SMILING, and THANKING.

Love is not just a FEELING. Love is what we DO.

                                                -Bruce and Carol Britten

        2) You will spend more than 2/3 of your life in your marriage

At what AGE will you like to marry?

At what age will you like to die?

The age difference will possibly be times two of when you marry. This means that not less than two third of your life will be spent in your marriage.

Imagine that the first 1/3 is spent struggling to go to schools to enjoy the remaining 2/3, and now the person find himself in a bad marriage, that will not be your portion in Jesus name.

           3) Only a good marriage gives a home worth having

God intends that there will be a HOME in every HOUSE. Only good marriage makes a home

Is there a home in your house presently? Will you like to pray NOW?

Good job gives a house, good spouse gives a home, labour to be a good spouse!

4   4) Bad marriage breeds individuality

Bad marriage separates couples.

Togetherness is the essence of marriage.

Individuality is anti-God’s plan and such marriage cannot have the blessing of God [Ps 133].

Challenges in marriage can be best faced when you are at peace with your spouse and with God.

           5) Your marriage will either complete you or finish you

Complete and Finish are not synonyms when it comes to marriage as I learnt from one funny story.

When you marry rightly, you are complete. But when you marry wrongly, you are finished!

The life’s value of a married person is a mean value. The sum of the two of us is as good as each of us. Only two good eggs make one omelet.

      6) Making heaven will be difficult with a bad marriage

It will be hard (but not impossible) to make heaven with a bad marriage. WHY?

The parties are prone to:

1)      Unforgiveness

2)      Adultery

3)      Disobedience to scriptures

4)      Hatred for one another

5)      Sorrow and grief

6)      Covetousness

7)      Comparism

8)      Lying, deception, secrecy etc.

Dear, please tell me where anyone with the above will land in eternity.

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God bless you.

YOU WILL NOT MISS IT IN JESUS NAME!